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Duane Moderow
August 30, 1931 ~ January 17, 2018 (age 86) 86 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Carol Overley
January 26, 2018 12:52 PM
Dear Mary Ann, and family
Duane was always a wonderful cousin, as we were not far apart in age. He was always so quiet and considerate as we grew up. Just like his Dad, my Uncle Ewald. Although I spent many years away from the North Dakota I knew I still remember the good old days. One could never ask for a nicer, better person than my cousin Duane. May he rest in peace, and may all of you come to accept his loss and know he was the best here was.
Duane was always a wonderful cousin, as we were not far apart in age. He was always so quiet and considerate as we grew up. Just like his Dad, my Uncle Ewald. Although I spent many years away from the North Dakota I knew I still remember the good old days. One could never ask for a nicer, better person than my cousin Duane. May he rest in peace, and may all of you come to accept his loss and know he was the best here was.
Message from Roger Larson
January 23, 2018 6:10 PM
What can a person say about Duane? A gentle spirit, a quiet soul, loving, kind, caring, responsible, fun, friendly, supportive, smart, witty, understated?
I lived about a mile as the dog bark carries on a foggy morning from Duane. I knew him first when he and his dad put up corn silage with my family on perspective farms. My dad and family thought so much of the Moderows. That's when I first met Doc (Doug).
As Doc was my best friend, I spent many great hours at his house. Not just to see Doc, but also to spend time with his family. We played cards, board games, Mohjong, and one in particular,Dark Tower, for hours into the night and early morning. Man it was so much fun to play a game with them. Loved it.
Duane and Mary Ann were like my second parents. True I didn't need second parents but I spent so much time with them that they had a great impression on me. They went on my first actual time skiing at Fort Ransom; Duane actually skiing if I recall. They invited me to their cabin and Duane ran the boat my first time I tried water skiing and didn't make fun of me when I crashed oh so many times prior to actually succeeding. Many more skiing outings....
Duane and Mary Ann were chaperones on two trips that I "tagged" along with that Dave Watters put together to lessen his high school aged parishioners naivety about life outside North Dakota. Namely a trip to the inner city to Chicago's south side and a trip to St Louis' north side; both scary as I remember.
Duane was the calming factor for many a discussion on those trips and in many ways my guide to sanity. If he didn't look too worried, I thought it okay to relax. If his face was a bit strained, I took notice. Again, like a father in many ways and I needed one on those trips.
Duane will be missed by many because he was, well, Duane. I will miss him because he was so much more. I know your family and all your friends will miss you and it will hurt because of who you are/were. It should hurt when something so precious is taken away from you.
Duane may be gone but my memories he will live on and on. Bye Duane, love you.
I lived about a mile as the dog bark carries on a foggy morning from Duane. I knew him first when he and his dad put up corn silage with my family on perspective farms. My dad and family thought so much of the Moderows. That's when I first met Doc (Doug).
As Doc was my best friend, I spent many great hours at his house. Not just to see Doc, but also to spend time with his family. We played cards, board games, Mohjong, and one in particular,Dark Tower, for hours into the night and early morning. Man it was so much fun to play a game with them. Loved it.
Duane and Mary Ann were like my second parents. True I didn't need second parents but I spent so much time with them that they had a great impression on me. They went on my first actual time skiing at Fort Ransom; Duane actually skiing if I recall. They invited me to their cabin and Duane ran the boat my first time I tried water skiing and didn't make fun of me when I crashed oh so many times prior to actually succeeding. Many more skiing outings....
Duane and Mary Ann were chaperones on two trips that I "tagged" along with that Dave Watters put together to lessen his high school aged parishioners naivety about life outside North Dakota. Namely a trip to the inner city to Chicago's south side and a trip to St Louis' north side; both scary as I remember.
Duane was the calming factor for many a discussion on those trips and in many ways my guide to sanity. If he didn't look too worried, I thought it okay to relax. If his face was a bit strained, I took notice. Again, like a father in many ways and I needed one on those trips.
Duane will be missed by many because he was, well, Duane. I will miss him because he was so much more. I know your family and all your friends will miss you and it will hurt because of who you are/were. It should hurt when something so precious is taken away from you.
Duane may be gone but my memories he will live on and on. Bye Duane, love you.
Message from dmamode3@msn.com
January 23, 2018 6:31 PM
Hello Dear Roger:
just sitting here altogether - day 1 after Duane's casket was closed. MaryAnn, pam, doug, Brenda and Mike Nelson. thank you Roger for the nice words - many reflections of good times with you at our home - you were our extra son to love on. we miss you, too and will always remember the fun farm times with you involved. we are blessed that God put so many wonderful people in Duane's and our life. hugs!
just sitting here altogether - day 1 after Duane's casket was closed. MaryAnn, pam, doug, Brenda and Mike Nelson. thank you Roger for the nice words - many reflections of good times with you at our home - you were our extra son to love on. we miss you, too and will always remember the fun farm times with you involved. we are blessed that God put so many wonderful people in Duane's and our life. hugs!
Message from Punton Family
January 22, 2018 1:35 PM
The Punton Family sends its deepest condolences and may he have safe passage.
A candle was lit by Punton Family
on January 22, 2018 1:34 PM
Message from June
January 20, 2018 4:27 PM
Sympathy to the Moderow family. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Dave and June
Message from Darrel and Julie Olson
January 20, 2018 2:59 PM
With my mother also being at Edgewood, I had the honor of visiting with your dad often and he became a favorite fan of mine and our whole family when we were there. All our love and prayers to your whole family. Julie Olson Mary Ann XXXO
Message from Gary and Audrey Grieve
January 20, 2018 8:08 AM
Mary Ann and family. Gary and I want to send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Duane was such a pleasant guy and he will be missed by all. We are in Florida now, but, our thoughts will be with you from a distance. We will see you when we get back to North Dakota. Love, Gary and Audrey
Message from Stephanie and David Baasch
January 19, 2018 11:19 PM
Our sincere sympathy to the Moderow family. May God bless and comfort you all during this difficult time.
Message from Lucille Kingsley
January 19, 2018 8:16 PM
My sympathy to each and everyone of you.
Message from Pam Church
January 19, 2018 7:38 PM
Brenda I'm so sorry for the passing of your father. I know this is very hard for you all but I also know God promises we will see our loved ones again. Hang on to all those wonderful memories you have of your dad and hold them tight. A father / daughter relationship is very special. Please let your mom, Doug and Pam know my prayers are with you all during this time.
Message from brendakay22@gmail.com
January 23, 2018 6:35 PM
Hi Pam:
thank you for your sincere blessings - I am so glad you are my friend - my Christian Sister in Faith - missing dad so much but time and Jesus will heal my heart - my family also says "thank you" for you kind words. Brenda
thank you for your sincere blessings - I am so glad you are my friend - my Christian Sister in Faith - missing dad so much but time and Jesus will heal my heart - my family also says "thank you" for you kind words. Brenda
A candle was lit by Joann Radermacher
on January 19, 2018 6:46 PM
My condolences to the Moderow family. I am so sorry for your loss. He will be missed. Love and prayers to all.
My condolences to the Moderow family. I am so sorry for your loss. He will be missed. Love and prayers to all.
A candle was lit by Stuart & Julie Landburg family
on January 19, 2018 6:29 PM
Message from Carol for the Argall Family
January 19, 2018 4:12 PM
Dear Moderow Family, We were so sorry to hear of Duane's passing. He was a great family man, good christian and proud veteran. Take comfort in your wonderful memories. I pray for God's peace for each of you. Carol
Message from Pam
January 19, 2018 6:27 PM
Thanks Carol m family for your kind n precious words! My Dad was so kind n caring! I will miss his smile n pretty blue eyes! I got to talk to him daily so I feel blessed !
A candle was lit by Toni and Kenny Eraker
on January 19, 2018 11:57 AM
A candle was lit by Jim and Jody Nelson
on January 19, 2018 11:08 AM
A candle was lit by Jon and Connie Carley
on January 19, 2018 11:03 AM
Message from Jill (Willson) Tangen
January 19, 2018 10:50 AM
Our hearts go out to you and your family. I wish you comfort and peace as you remember Duane.
Message from Pam
January 19, 2018 6:39 PM
Thanks Jill for your caring kind words. I will miss my dear father greatly! Had a wonderful with your father today! He is so sweet!
Message from Randy and Kathy Kosir
January 19, 2018 8:00 AM
Our hearts go out to you all. I always tried to stop and visit when I flew home to see my mom in the same assistant living. Peace be with you.
Message from Pam
January 19, 2018 6:25 PM
Thanks Randy ...it was so unexpected and will miss him so much! I got to visit with your mom yesterday n Tom n Kaye! My mom enjoys visiting with your mom n she will miss her now that she is moving! Thinking about you n your family in your moms health journey.
A candle was lit by John Monilaws and Family
on January 19, 2018 6:00 AM
A candle was lit by Larry Pietsch
on January 18, 2018 9:02 PM
A candle was lit by Renee Kapaun
on January 18, 2018 5:21 PM
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